varying colours of life...

life is all about sitting and dreaming

almost like a girl surfing the world sitting

at the side of the window,as the world moves over

the life passes by without informing me

the gains and losses,

the losses pass me through like a speedy wind,

and there is no trace of gains in life,

ray of hopes appear to move far away,

the counterparts seem to climbup the ladder

and i seem to fall belowground,

ages passby with nothing fruitful gained

through this mighty brain,

the feeling of worthlessness fills the air,

yet,i continue painting the canvass of dreams

though the reality splashes water on it..

Its my life!!

Our country is usually famous for family values and sentiments.All people live within a family's control.This system benefits some dominant minded people who even tend to bend the back bone of the family members according to their will and wish.
I wonder how such human beings live without a slight thinking that others too have their own life.
some people think that their spouse and off-springs obey them out of respect ad love,but it is sad that they even die without knowing that they obeyed his/her commands only out of fear and they dont have even minimum respect for them.
The indecent intrusion into other's life starts early at the morning itself and extends till night by asking "didnt you sleep?why the light is on?....",some body sleeps at some time,what is your problem,are they sitting in your eyes?
They always live in an illusion and imagination that they are leading and controlling the home in a great way!
such people are unaware that they are sowing seeds of hatred on other's mind and growing it into a big tree day by day.They tend to decide what others should eat,where they must go...and all private affairs of others.The usual dialouge heared in indian homes is "you dont want that".
In some big families about 20-30 persons adjust to satisfy the oldest authouritative person in the family,aren't such persons performing directorship in the home are ashamed to be life-long hurdles to the happiness of their own relations?
whoever it is,a person have their own life to live!!
Respect should be given to others privacy and rights,and there will be no conflicts if all people live their own life.