Sunday, March 8, 2009

The fading rainbow





"Friendship is the rainbow between two hearts"
-the famous and beautiful saying about friendship,but people forget all rainbows fade away after the rain stops.
friendship is nothing but a bundle of expectations.when we say the word friendship ,everyone get reminded of the proverb-"A friend in need is a friend indeed",but it expresses total selfishness,does one develops friendship only to get help in need?its impossible to have a friend without any expectations,atleast we expect them to be affectionate.
All friends become a stranger one day,close friendship is just an illusion,conflicts
arise in same proportion as closeness.
Expecting our friends to understand our problems is total madness,no body could explore our problems other than ourself,even some people dont like if their friends talk about their problems.
learning to live includes learning to live without friends.
Being friendly and approachable by all is a lifeskill,but being a true and good friend is the most difficult skill to acquire.
friends leave us even if we change slightly,is there any change-tolerant friend in the world?,ironically they are bored if we don't change.
No relationship is permanent,so let us expect less and live happily.

3 comments:

  1. list out ur friends ashu,illusion ,conflicts many u had described................open ur heart

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  2. its really hard to agree with u.. anyhow except less n live happily..:-)

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  3. a different thought! anyhow... interesting!

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